Commenting on the expert post. It’s a good, life-affirming question, because there’s not enough love for either women or men, and why live at all!?
A man once put a cart in front of a horse, but he couldn’t get it moving.
What if this is a consequence rather than a cause? It seems to me that way, although I might not fully understand, and the cause is correct. Regardless, it’s worth considering, as we engage in this regularly.

