Two tasks are being solved.
The first is to learn the most important things in his life. Family members evoke the feelings and emotions that encourage learning what is least developed. This varies from person to person.
For this reason, people are always irritated by their loved ones, and they either tolerate them or kick them out of their lives.
However, the person understands the true meaning of what is happening and learns from it.
Socrates said about his grumpy wife:
If I can get along with her, I won’t be afraid of anyone else.
However, solving only the first task is not enough.
The second task, which is more important, is to participate in the New Covenant with God. It is unlikely that one can begin this righteous path without a family, a spouse, or children, as there is a lack of love in public society.
