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Who should take the initiative in an intimate relationship?

Вадим Портнов

June, 19, 2026

From a woman.

A man with an intimate initiative:

• Loses internal focus, switches to external.
• Loses predator grip, acquires resource keeper grip.
• Quickly accumulates medium resources, loses ability to capture large resources.

A woman whose man is intimately proactive:

• Acquires the status of an equal.
• Acquires competitors.
• Observes the degradation of male energy in the partner, the development of female.
• Loses her role as a resource guardian.